McAlester, Oklahoma · Small-Group Format
For Christian couples at a crossroads.
You are committed to your faith and your marriage, but the baggage, trauma, and broken communication are tearing you apart. Step away from the tension and learn evidence-based tools to rebuild your foundation.
An in-person, small-group weekend in McAlester, Oklahoma · $1,700 per couple · Meals and materials included · Lodging not included
After we review your application, we’ll invite you to a free 30-minute fit call with Dr. Graham.
In crisis? Call or text 988, or the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 (or text START to 88788). In an emergency, call 911.
About the Clinicians
Led by a Doctor of Social Work and University Clinical Professor, we combine uncompromising clinical rigor with a Christ-centered approach. We strive to provide honest and collaborative feedback for you to grow with.
How We Work
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Identifying the specific trauma, communication blocks, and historical baggage holding you back.
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Utilizing clinical tools like love languages and personality frameworks to understand your dynamic and align it with your faith.
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Leaving with a written plan and practical tools to keep working on your marriage after the weekend.
The Weekend
In-person group intensive in McAlester, OK · Limited to 5 couples · $1,700 per couple
2026–27 Dates: Nov 20–21 · Dec 18–19 · Jan 22–23 · Feb 19–20 · Mar 12–13
Friday 5–8 pm · Saturday 8 am–5 pm
Meals and materials are included. Lodging is not included.
Friday Evening
The Goal: Lower the tension and set the stage.
The Work: We address the targeted stressors from your application and confront the reality of recovery (a framework we use: repairing a wound takes far more intentional effort than it took to cause it). Tonight is about breaking down barriers and preparing for tomorrow’s heavy lifting.
Saturday Daytime
The Goal: Understand the dynamic and begin repair.
The Work: Utilizing the 4 Elements testing, we map out your specific limitations and strengths. From there, we tackle broken trust. We don’t just talk about it; we learn how to bandage it correctly, navigating the intense vulnerability of the wounded and the guilt and shame of the one who caused the break. (Lunch is provided on-site so the focus remains unbroken.)
Saturday Afternoon
The Goal: Spiritual intimacy and a clear path forward.
The Work: We conclude the intensive with a profound challenge to your spiritual intimacy, culminating in a powerful exercise of renewed commitment (such as communion or vow renewal) to close the weekend together.
Post-Intensive
The Goal: Continuing the work.
The Work: The weekend is the catalyst, but community is the anchor. You will be invited to an optional follow-up group for continued encouragement and accountability as you keep practicing the tools you learned.
After we review your application, we’ll invite you to a free 30-minute fit call with Dr. Graham.
Get Started
Whether you’re ready for a weekend intensive or prefer ongoing sessions, there’s a clear next step.
Couples
An in-person group weekend in McAlester, OK for Christian couples ready to rebuild trust, communication, and spiritual intimacy. Small group, max 5 couples. $1,700 per couple, meals included.
Self-Pay
One-on-one individual counseling, scheduled directly with us. Pick a time that works for you and book online.
Insurance
Traditional therapy billed to your insurance through Headway. View our profile to check your coverage and request a time.
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